I am always surprised at the 24/7 woman and men who are in a chat room. DO they NOT have lives?  Who is cleaning the house, doing the cooking, errons, watching the children?  I get online at night always after 8 pm and I am offline by atleast 1 am if not earlier. During the day, if I am caught up with what my daily task are, I will get online, check my mail, or purhaps play a game or two. No more then an hour is spent on here in the day hours…..

I have heard men complain they can not find work.  I understand this in todays job market. BUT, how can one find a job if all there time is spent in a chat room?  And NO guys I am not talking about all of you.  Or I have heard woman complaining that there husbands are getting mad the house is dirty, dinner isnt ready, or i can hear lil ones crying in the back ground as the mom is on a mic in a chat room.  I for one think that is just plain wrong!  But I am not them, and i dont know their reasons or if nothing gets done etc. so I cant judge, but my gut does tell me there is something wrong with this picture.

I have left several chat rooms because I got tired of people like that, complaining about this that and the other, yet cant break away from the computer to fix it.

I can write a book on the many people i have met over the years, funny stories, sad stories, sick stories. But what ever our reasons for being online, I only ask you all to remember this one lil thing. behind all those names, lives a real person, some with real stories that we just cant comprehend. maybe this is all they have, so we should try and guard theirs hearts as we try and guards our own.   I forget that alot, but each day i try to make those who come into my place smile, feel good in their short moments and leave knowing atleast in my room they had just a little bit of entertainment.

for now I am only talking about men online. Talk about totaly different then the ones you actualy get to met face to face. Or is the way they behave etc, online their true self, and offline just a cover or an act because they don’t feel safe to be who they truely are inside.

Lately what stresses me out so much are the men who plays the trade game. a good example is, at christman time a guy i have talked to thru email for a while now, asked me what i would like for christmas, after telling him I didnt want anything, and him repeating the Q to me, I finaly gave in and said the title of a book I really wanted to get.  His reply was well I will get you the book, IF. the hated IF. If a woman does this or that they will be rewarded, BS. if a guy asked me what I would like and I tell him, dont want to hear i can have it IF, that tells me he didnt have any intention what so ever of getting me anything so why ask it.  If i have to give up something in order to get a gift that was first offered to me, I would rather go without thank you.

the other thing is men cant be happy with what they have at the moment. friendship is never enough for them. They always want more and right NOW, they sure are not very patient humans are they?

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I may complain about men, or the weather, I may share a dinner I made, one never knows, but I do hope that those who choose to read my blog will feel free to post, give advice, vent, share pictures or stories they wrote, anything and everything is my hope for this. It takes you to help me do it.

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